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Lives Less Ordinary

He was almost a mass shooter – an act of kindness stopped him

Lives Less Ordinary

BBC

Society & Culture, Documentary, Personal Journals

4.6814 Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Aaron Stark now works to raise awareness around why mass attacks happen.

Aaron had a chaotic and violent childhood, and by the time he was a teenager he was homeless, angry and traumatised. At his lowest point, he began to plan an appaling act of violence in a bid to punish the world around him. He wanted to get hold of a gun, but before he could, his best friend Mike changed the course of his life with a small, simple act of kindness.

This episode includes themes of suicide, self harm and drug use.

If you need support relating to any of the issues we've covered in this interview, you can find more information on the BBC Action line website or at Befrienders.org

Presenter: Jo Fidgen Producer: Harry Graham and Emily Naylor Editor: Munazza Khan

Transcript

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0:00.0

You are about to listen to a BBC podcast and I'd like to tell you a bit about what goes into making one.

0:06.5

I'm Sadata Sese, an assistant commissioner of podcasts for BBC Sounds.

0:11.1

I pull a lot of levers to support a diverse range of podcasts on all sorts of subjects,

0:16.0

relationships, identity, comedy, even one that mixes poetry, music and inner city life. So one day I'll be

0:23.5

helping host develop their ideas, the next fact-checking, a feature, and the next looking at

0:29.6

how a podcast connects with its audience. And maybe that's you. So if you like this podcast,

0:35.4

check out some others on BBC Sounds.

0:39.4

I was a huge X-Men fan.

0:44.3

And there were two particular characters that I really identified with when I was growing up.

0:45.7

They were Nightcrawler.

0:48.8

And then the other character I really liked was called Archangel.

0:55.1

And he was this preppy kid with these big feathered angel wings.

1:01.4

But then he got kidnapped by a villain, and the villain chopped his wings off and replaced him with evil metal wings.

1:04.5

These metal wings that on their own, the metal wings would go and kill people.

1:09.8

The metal wings were evil, and he couldn't control them, and he had to fight against his own wings to take his powers back.

1:15.6

And when he gets angry, he flips into his archangel persona and his archangel persona is the one that does all the damage. So those two characters were the ones that I really identify with.

1:20.9

The archangel image is really striking because if you were thinking of yourself in that character,

1:25.8

there's basically a nice person who's been given some metal wings

1:30.7

that do a lot of damage and that they can't control.

1:34.0

Is that how you felt?

1:35.1

That kind of is.

1:36.4

Like, at the time I didn't think of it,

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