He Wants the Benefits… Not the Relationship | No Titles, Cheating & Mixed Signals
Dear Tisia
Relationship Restored
5.0 • 866 Ratings
🗓️ 6 April 2026
⏱️ 53 minutes
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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re breaking down one of the most frustrating dating realities… when someone wants all the benefits of a relationship, but refuses to actually commit.
🏡 One woman is living with her child’s father. They share a home, a child, and a life together… but he still says they’re not in a relationship. So what do you do when someone is building a life with you, but refuses to claim you?
⏳ Another woman has been dealing with the same man for nine months. Dates, holidays, conversations… but still no title. At what point does “taking it slow” turn into wasting your time?
💔 And one caller is stuck in a cycle of cheating and trying to fix it. When you’re the only one putting in effort, can love actually be enough to save the relationship?
🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we react to comments from Ari Lennox about choosing “toxic” partners over stable ones… and ask the real question:
Are people struggling to find healthy love… or are they overlooking it because it doesn’t feel exciting?
👇 Let’s talk about it.
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| 0:00.0 | Okay, y'all, before we go on to the next segment, can we please talk about how cold it is outside? |
| 0:05.5 | Last week, it was colder in Chicago than it was in Antarctica, and y'all know I loathe the cold. |
| 0:11.4 | Don't invite me anywhere because your girl is going to be right here in the house. |
| 0:14.9 | The men say that a woman that stays in the house is a green flag. |
| 0:19.1 | Well, why haven't I found my husband yet? |
| 0:21.5 | Exactly. |
| 0:22.4 | Anyways, I always like to show myself a little extra love when it's cold and make sure that my house is super comfy and cozy. |
| 0:29.9 | Okay, this is my setup, POV. |
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| 0:38.9 | And then I'm going to grab their classic cuddle blanket and get right on my couch and watch |
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| 1:17.0 | get a post-purched survey, be sure to mention that you heard about cozy earth right here. Celebrate |
| 1:22.6 | everyday love with comfort that makes the little moments count. Consistency is the biggest thing for a man to do. |
| 1:31.2 | Most men cannot hold it. |
| 1:33.9 | Most men interest will fade. |
| 1:36.3 | When you say, what are we? |
| 1:38.0 | Y'all, y'all are as much as he communicates with you. |
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