When you make people feel good for doing something for you, shocker, they'll want to keep doing it for you over and over again just to feel that feeling of appreciation.

Men are not complicated.

There are simple beings who just need a little bit of an ego stroke from time to time.

Viola Benson, your favorite meme queen and the big sis you didn't ask for, but. Welcome to almost adulting. Are you ready?

Hey, besties. I'm welcome to a brand new almost adulting, the largest self-health podcast and movement,

your number one destination for personal growth and mental health. I'm your big sister and your host,

Violetta. Welcome to a brand new dating episode. And also, if you would like to enjoy today's episode

with no ads, then make sure you consider subscribing to my premium podcast, which is the link in the

bio of today's episode. And again, it's almostadulting.supacast.com. Okay, so this week,

my dating advice is around the book, why men love bitches.

And today I am teaching you how to convince him that he's in control, even though, guess what,

you are.

So look, it doesn't matter if it's a nice guy who talks about his feelings all the time or the bad boy player that's waiting for you to change his ways.

Both of these guys have one thing in common.

And that is that they both want to fuck you.

Okay?

No exceptions.

Every man wants to have sex when he first meets a woman.

Whether he wants a girlfriend, that's something

that he thinks about later. So when you don't give him what he wants up front, you become his

girlfriend without him even realizing it. Now, in order to motivate a man to give, he first has to feel

good when he gives. Power is intoxicating to a man in the same way romance is intoxicating to us women.

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