Welcome everybody to episode eight of the He Said, she said podcast. I am your host,

reality Steve. Join with my co-host as always Ashley Spivey. Ashley, how are you?

Doing pretty great. How are you? I'm good. We got two callers this week. We've got Dana

and Tampa who has issues with a mother who drinks too much and we've got Marissa in North

Carolina who has her boyfriend that she lives with recently lost his job and is kind of the

relationship has kind of gone south since then. So two interesting phone calls very different,

but both I think are very interesting and probably relatable to people out there that maybe

don't want to come forward. And as we as we talk about every episode, if you want to be on this

podcast, email myself for Ashley DM us whatever you want to do. If you want to remain anonymous,

that's fine. We can do that half the callers on the show have used different names than what

they really are. So if you want to be on a future show by all means contact myself for Ashley in

any way, shape, or form and just let us know you have Skype. Let us know what time's on your in

and when the best times of the day for you to record and we can we can get that done for you.

So that's something that go ahead. I was gonna say I have a question to kind of start things off.

Do you feel like you can be friends with X's and do you think that's okay to be friends with an

X if you're in a relationship? Oh, that was my next question. Was it?

What? No, I know it was was it going to be followed was it going to be followed by

if you're in a relationship? Oh, okay. Yeah, so

I mean, there's no universal answer. It's it's a case by case basis. I

I think you can still be friends with that person, but what form does that friendship take on?

Is it constantly hanging out with that person more so than your significant other? No,

that's not acceptable. Is it?

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