What's up everybody welcome to episode number 19 of the he said she said podcasts on your

host reality Steve as always joined by Ashley Spivey Ashley how are you doing great how

are you doing I'm doing good this is it's been a couple weeks since we've done this

but we're now we're back in season of the bachelorette so it'll be a lot easier probably

hopefully to get calls from you guys if you guys want to be a part of episode 20 or future

episodes let us know contact me contact Ashley anyway you can let us know your situation

what time's on your end and what your situation is and we'll we'll work something out I do

want to I do have an update from a caller back in November which was one of our I don't

guess the word to describe would be one of our deeper callers who when I start reading this some

of you might remember her I know Ashley you remember her this was back in and her name was April

in Colorado this is from November she said I first want to address the statement you made on the

podcast but that we didn't personally discuss which was postpartum it is safe to say that is

what is going on when I when my husband first started traveling my youngest was only four

months old I had a two year old baby and living in town I didn't want to be in I had sought help

from my ppd but was turned off on a handful of therapists that I saw I just want to be put on

medication I just really wanted to talk which was I think was the beginning of my spiral that led

to a suicide attempt if you remember this April in Colorado after a rocky first part of the year

my husband has been on disability since January and me sleeping in our basement for a week in January

after royally fucking up my birthday birthdays are extremely important especially we are currently

in therapy and he starts a new better paying no traveling job next week things are truly looking

up and we are on a happy path he's excited about this new job and now I just hope he can keep this

job for more than two years time will tell we're getting ready to celebrate the kids birthdays

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