What's up everybody welcome to the he said she said podcast episode number 15. I'm your host reality Steve as always joined by Ashley spyvy Ashley how are you?

Doing great kind of cold. Yeah, we are recording this January 30th and

Wednesday, which was the height of this polar vortex or whatever it's being called and

Yeah, it's I mean, I don't have to deal with it. I'm in Dallas and it was 65 today, but yeah minus

Thanks for you. Yeah minus minus eight for you today one of our callers our second caller on the show is from Indiana

And you'll hear her say that it was minus 15 when we recorded the call with her

Which just doesn't even seem like a real thing, but I know parts of Chicago and

Or parts of Illinois and Minnesota and

Wisconsin today. We're looking at like minus 47 minus 53

With the windshield. I'm like what?

I don't get it, but

Couple things to talk about here first off our last podcast

We had a poll question

Because we had a caller who talked about cohabitating before marriage and I asked what are your thoughts on cohabitating before marriage?

Is it necessary?

Can a couple make it without living together beforehand or they or are they the exception and not the norm?

And some people seem to take exception to that making it seem like

They were outcasts if they didn't live together, but got married and are still married to this day and

I'll stand by it. I think they are still the exception. I think I'm not saying and we and we said it on the podcast

We're not saying it can't work. Obviously there are examples

You go read some of the comments under that poll question. There are examples of people saying never lived with my

Partner and now we're 20 years married 30 years married and it's been great

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