HE'S USING YOU! - You MUST WALK AWAY From These Men Before They RUIN YOUR LIFE! | Audrina Patridge

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 26 October 2022

⏱️ 63 minutes

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The relationships you were in that made you doubt yourself because of what someone else told you about you. The times that you tried to stand up for yourself and your partner flipped the whole argument around and had you buying into lies and made the truth so blurry you couldn’t trust what you were seeing and hearing with your own eyes and ears. Staying in a relationship like that is self-destructive. You can’t stay just to keep the peace for everyone else while you suffer in silence. You can’t continue letting yourself down because you try to set a boundary and your partner stomps all over it and mocks you for even trying to have one. Today’s guest, Audrina Patridge, is the MTV reality show star of The Hills and author of the book, Choices: To The Hills and Back Again. She’s sharing the results she experienced from being a chronic people pleaser, and a woman stuck in toxic relationships living with the regret of bad decisions and wrong choices without any consideration for the consequences she would have to face. Audrina shares how she was able to break out of that and start identifying the areas she most needed boundaries and who the enablers were in her life that needed to go. You can break out of toxic relationships, these are solid tips and examples of how you can start on that path of healing and self-love today… Women of Impact is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction Audrina Patridge 0:18 | Stop Settling On Toxic Relationships 10:21 | People Pleasing Is A Choice 16:23 | Choices We Regret Instantly 20:28 | Handling Broken Trust 32:54 | After Trust Is Betrayed 38:40 | Communicate Clear Boundaries 45:20 | Manage Insecurities & Jealousy Follow Audrina Patridge: Website: https://audrinapatridgeonline.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AudrinaPatridge Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/audrinapatridge/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AudrinaPatridge/ Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	What up guys, Lisa here. You know when you just hear one of these stories and it knocks you so much for six, you like can't comprehend what it would be like to be in their situation? Well, today's guest, Audrina Patrick, that you may know from the hills and I were talking about just toxic relationships and what we do to stand up for ourselves. And as we're
0:22.1	talking, she freaking literally knocked my socks off by telling me about a story. Now wait for it guys,
0:31.0	where her two best friends had a threesome with her boyfriend. Now, I can't honestly imagine
0:37.4	being young and having that
0:39.6	happen to me and what that would do to my self-esteem, my, how I see myself, my worth. And
0:46.8	that's what we talk about, how something can happen in our lives that can shape how we think
0:51.8	and how we feel and then on future relationships, future things
0:55.2	that we do are all dictated by the things that we've done in the past and how this experience
1:00.0	of being betrayed by her friend and in her relationship left her feeling empty.
1:05.4	So she gives it just incredible detail and such grace about how she dealt with it, how she got back up. And that's
1:13.9	the thing, guys. That's what I'm all about. How on earth do you get back up when you fall to
1:19.0	your knees? Like we all fall, whether it's from someone betraying us, whether it's a bad
1:23.8	relationship, whether it's someone just pushing us around, we've, most of us, I want
1:29.1	to say, have been there. And I'm here to tell you it's okay. It's okay to fall. But homie, how the
1:36.0	hell do you get back up? And who can I bring on my show, Women of Impact, in order to give
1:41.7	us tips and tactics on how when we fall, we can get
1:45.3	back up. And so Adriena today gives us incredible takeaways and tips on how on earth we can
1:50.6	get back up, how we can find our voice. And when you're just tired of being taken advantage of
1:56.1	how you show up, how it can be detrimental to yourself if you're a chronic people pleaser.
2:03.5	We go through it all and so much more, guys.
2:06.4	So without further ado, let's dive in with me and Adriena Patrick on Women of Impact.
2:12.1	And guys, the one thing I would absolutely love and appreciate is if you took one or two minutes
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