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All right, nephew, thank you. Subject. He's growing on me.

Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a 58-year-old single woman, never married, and I don't have any children.

I've been engaged twice, but I don't believe in collecting red flags, so I luckily got out of the relationships in time, because right now, one of the guys is on his third marriage, the other one is married and he and his wife are

swingers after them i am very intentional about who i date and i am brutally honest with my partners

this new guy that i met on a blind date is handsome and we have great conversation but he lives

in a one-bedroom apartment with a big

shaggy dog at my age they say that I should lower my standards but this man had me

worried when I met him our mutual friend hooked us up and she checks in with me from time

to time to see how things are going about a week ago we chatting, and I told her that the man was growing on me.

Days later, the man's attitude changed, and I noticed a shift in his personality.

I eventually confronted him about how he was acting, and he said he was offended that i said he's growing on me i don't

think what i said was bad at all and i see it uh to our and i said it to our mutual and i said it to our mutual

friend to keep her out of our business well he didn't like it one bit and he said he was going

to give me time to think about what i said i I defended what I said and he hung up on me.

It's been a few days and I miss him so much.

I want him to come to his senses and come back to me.

But what if he doesn't?

Is this maybe God's way of telling me he's not the one for me?

Girl, send that man a thank you note and just keep it moving.

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