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He or She? How Should I Refer to Transgender Friends?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2015

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

Does love demand that we agree to call our transgender friends by their preferred gender title?

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0:00.0

A very common question we receive is reflected in a question from a podcast listener named

0:10.8

Ruth, who asked this.

0:12.9

Pastor John, how should we respond when LGBT friends want us to refer to them by a different

0:18.4

opposite gender name?

0:20.5

Like when a female asks everyone to now call her by a male name, should we call them

0:25.8

by that male name?

0:27.7

Samantha likewise asks this in light of the Bruce Jenner interview and other celebrities

0:32.7

pushing the LGBT agenda.

0:35.4

How should a Christian treat a person who identifies under one of these labels?

0:39.2

Should I treat a transgender person as the gender they choose or the one they were born

0:44.3

with?

0:45.3

Pastor John, help us with these questions.

0:47.8

Before I give three guidelines that I thought of, that would guide behavior in specific

0:54.8

response to those questions.

0:56.2

I really do need to lay the foundations here because we're assuming some things that would

1:00.8

not be assumed by a lot of people and we need to give an account for why we assume them.

1:07.9

I'm going to assume, I'm going to try to argue for now, biblically, that gender even

1:14.8

though the world considers it distinct from sex, for the Christian should be in sync with

1:21.7

the biological genetic sex and there are Biblical reasons for that.

1:29.4

Manhood and womanhood are understood and intended in the Bible.

1:33.3

That is intended by God, our creator, as biologically or genetically, of course the Biblical authors

1:42.1

didn't know anything about genetics, but I'm throwing it in because we do and it's in

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