"He Married Someone While We Were Dating"
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 5 December 2024
⏱️ 86 minutes
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Summary
I'm joined by Lizzie, a 28 year old who opens up about falling for a narcissistic sociopath and finding out he married someone else while they were dating. She shares how he isolated her from her family, how they planned to move in together, and the warning signs she missed along the way. We hear what led her to think he might be hiding something and how she went about finding proof before confronting him. Finally, she shares how she connected with other women he was doing the same thing to and the personal growth journey that she went on after ending the relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Little did I know that that friend that was in the background that he was also moving to Seattle |
| 0:10.5 | with was his fiancé and eventual wife that he got married to while he was dating me. |
| 0:18.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered. |
| 0:23.5 | It's Thursday, so that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes shocking, |
| 0:28.7 | and always unfiltered experiences. |
| 0:31.4 | Think you're alone out there? |
| 0:32.5 | Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your mom or whose last date ended up being |
| 0:36.7 | a catfish? |
| 0:38.3 | Think again. |
| 0:45.7 | My name is Lizzie. I am 28 years old and I live in San Diego. And I'm here to talk to you about narcissistic relationships, what, you know, they're like, the warning signs and then how to |
| 0:51.7 | heal from them and come out better the other side. |
| 1:00.4 | The second I saw your email, I mean, to say my jaw dropped was, that would be the understatement of the year. |
| 1:02.4 | I know there's some crazy shit that we're going to get into today. |
| 1:08.6 | And I so appreciate you being open to coming and talking about it. I know, |
| 1:15.3 | or I can only imagine that what you went through was incredibly painful and confusing and |
| 1:21.7 | heartbreaking. And to have you hear, you know, a few years removed from it out the other side so strong |
| 1:30.1 | is just really inspiring. So just want to start by saying thank you. To begin, where should we |
| 1:38.3 | start? Because I don't know. Yeah. It's, it's, I mean, it's a confusing long, like long story. But I mean, I guess, |
| 1:47.9 | like not to take everyone back to a terrible time. This was during COVID. So, you know, |
| 1:54.1 | timeline April of 2024, April May, or sorry, 2020, April May. And May and right the world has kind of shut down |
| 2:04.7 | life is very different and I at the time you know was a high risk person for COVID and so |
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