He Keeps Coming Back… But I Know He’s Not Good For Me | Dating Boundaries & Long Distance Love
Dear Tisia
Relationship Restored
5.0 • 866 Ratings
🗓️ 16 March 2026
⏱️ 63 minutes
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Summary
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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what it takes to break unhealthy patterns, protect your boundaries, and navigate complicated relationships.
💔 One caller knows a man in her life isn’t good for her — he ghosted, crossed boundaries, and keeps finding ways back into her life even after being blocked. She sees the pattern clearly, but emotionally detaching has been harder than expected.
🎓 Another listener is in a healthy relationship while finishing college, but graduate school could take them to different cities. When two people are pursuing big dreams, how do you decide whether long distance is worth it — or whether it’s time to let go?
👨👩👧 And one woman is dating a man who wants to meet her family, but she isn’t even speaking to them right now. How do you honor your partner’s desire for connection while protecting your own boundaries?
🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we discuss a viral story about a couple vacationing together for Valentine’s Day — while the boyfriend posted content pretending he was somewhere else. In the age of social media, is that protecting privacy… or hiding the relationship from someone else?
👇 Let’s talk about it.
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| 0:00.0 | Okay, y'all, before we go on to the next segment, can we please talk about how cold it is outside? |
| 0:05.5 | Last week, it was colder in Chicago than it was in Antarctica, and y'all know I loathe the cold. |
| 0:11.4 | Don't invite me anywhere because your girl is going to be right here in the house. |
| 0:14.9 | The men say that a woman that stays in the house is a green flag. |
| 0:19.1 | Well, why haven't I found my husband yet? |
| 0:21.5 | Exactly. |
| 0:22.4 | Anyways, I always like to show myself a little extra love when it's cold and make sure that my house is super comfy and cozy. |
| 0:29.9 | Okay, this is my setup, POV. |
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| 0:38.9 | And then I'm going to grab their classic cuddle blanket and get right on my couch and watch |
| 0:43.9 | all of my favorite shows. And when it's time to climb in my bed, guess what I'm laying on? |
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| 1:32.8 | These men will try to, they will send a bird. |
| 1:35.4 | You block them on your phone. |
| 1:37.5 | They come through your email. |
| 1:39.4 | They'll contact you on LinkedIn. |
| 1:40.7 | They come through your DM. |
| 1:44.6 | And you're thinking like, wow, this person is really trying to get in contact with me then when they get in contact with you hello hello can you hear me now if anyone |
| 1:52.2 | the connection is bad these men will go through hell and high water to try to connect with you |
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