I was gonna say I'm bringing up Sharon's like own history here,

but I think she'll be fine.

In secondary school, when I tell you, Sharon was like, I don't know what it was, but I felt like people just always came to you with like situations about their relationships and it was always with people that you're also cool with. And then like, I just, you don't remember. There was a period. I know that happened, but I'm wondering what you're gonna say. No, but I just mean like I felt like you found it.

There was a point where I feel like you even call me or we spoke and you were just exhausted because I feel like mentally you were you were carrying the burdens. Not burdens or like, just the issues that were going on in their relationship because someone will come and tell you something. Someone else will come and tell you something and then you were just like like what I'm going to do it. I'm trying to be the media. Yeah. Yeah. And I would never do that again. Obviously, secondary school, I would do as I was a child. But yeah, I would never do that. I'm just like, if you have an issue with this person that has, why are we mediating? Like, and actually, I had a conversation with someone about this recently. And this one was a bit more serious because the couple were actually married and she said that she because she had a friendship with both of them

individually before they this recently and this one was a bit more serious because the couple were actually married and she

said that she because she had a friendship with both of them individually before they even got

married she found herself almost kind of like being the media because they didn't want to speak

to each other so they would speak through her and she was like god forbid she'll never do that again

and i was like yeah because you end up having they end end up, they're going to end up hating you actually.

Yeah.

Because you're the person that has to deliver the message.

But it's like, I didn't even say these things.

But obviously, they're not speaking to that person. So they can't even be angry to that person because they're not speaking to that person. But yeah. Yeah. When I was younger, like, I don't know. maybe I had like Royal Mel on my forehead or something.

I don't know, but people always used to, yeah,

definitely like try and get me to that mediate their situation.

Yeah.

Yeah.

It's not fair.

I'm trying to get through these GCSEs, girls. Honestly, honestly, honestly. I think, is, is, sometimes the whole ex thing can be tricky, especially if, like, let's say that your friend has an ex and you're very, very friendly with ex.

I have someone in my mind.

Anyway, yes.

And it's just like...

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