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Today, Explained

“Having kids was a mistake”

Today, Explained

Vox

Politics, Daily News, News

4.310.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 April 2026

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

They thought they would learn to love parenthood. They were wrong. This episode was produced by Miles Bryan, edited by Jolie Myers, fact-checked by Gabriel Dunatov, engineered by David Tatasciore, and hosted by Sean Rameswaram. Photo by Tomohiro Ohsumi/Getty Images. Listen to Today, Explained ad-free by becoming a Vox Member: vox.com/members. New Vox members get $20 off their membership right now. Transcript at ⁠vox.com/today-explained-podcast.⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Today, Explain is the program. I'm Sean Ramos firm and I recently became the father of a daughter,

0:04.8

but I didn't always know if I wanted kids. In fact, I distinctly remember being at a bar with

0:11.9

some of my oldest friends one night in my 20s, and my buddy Jeff said he wanted to have kids,

0:17.3

and I was shocked. We were 25. We never talked about kids, but he knew he wanted them. How

0:23.0

did he know? It sounds like something I would say. I asked him this week, 15 or so years later.

0:28.2

I wanted to pursue something bigger than myself, and that was something I could relate to at the

0:35.0

time. It all worked out for Jeff, who now has two daughters and is super into them, but it doesn't

0:40.9

go so well for everyone. More and more people in the United States are deciding not to have

0:46.8

kids. Birth rates just hit yet another record low, and some people out there are having kids

0:52.6

and regretting the decision.

0:54.6

We're going to hear from a few of them on Today Explain from Vox.

0:59.6

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