Having a Boyfriend Is Not In Vogue
Don't Think with Carla Bezanson
Dear Media
4.9 • 547 Ratings
🗓️ 13 November 2025
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever convinced yourself being single is empowering but still cried because you’re secretly scared you’re unlovable and lonely AF? Same. This one’s about why Vogue says having a boyfriend is embarrassing, the emotional labor gap, and why being alone doesn’t have to mean being lonely.’'
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a Dear Media production. |
| 0:13.3 | Hello. |
| 0:14.9 | What's up, you guys? |
| 0:15.9 | Welcome to this week's episode of Don't Think. |
| 0:18.8 | Just a minute, please. |
| 0:25.6 | Okay. episode of Don't Think. Just a minute, please. Oh, I have to crack my diet root beer before we can go any further. I think I just spilled |
| 0:32.1 | that on my sweater. Not an ad. Not an ad. Just nothing's better than diet repair. Okay. Let's get into it. Welcome back to Don't Think. The podcast for anyone who is desperately sick of themselves. I'm talking like your brain annoys you all day every day and you can't get a break from it. I actually |
| 0:55.5 | open Instagram this morning to somebody posting about my podcast episode that came out today |
| 1:01.5 | and their post was like, I'm super anxious, nothing new there and excited to get a 27 minute long |
| 1:09.0 | break from my own brain with the don't think podcast. And I was like, oh my God, we've done it. That's exactly what I want this show to be for you guys. Unfortunately, it's not that for me. Actually, you know what? It kind of is, though, because while I'm actually recording the podcast, I'm so focused, I'm so dialed in that I can't possibly spiral about anything else. |
| 1:27.5 | So you know what? It is a break. It's a break for all of us. |
| 1:30.3 | On that note, what shall we overthink today? |
| 1:33.3 | I'm sure you've all heard it by now. |
| 1:37.3 | Vogue saying that having a boyfriend is embarrassing, |
| 1:41.3 | which is actually great news for me as the face of chronically single women |
| 1:45.7 | online. Actually, before we go any further into this episode, I do need to confess something, |
| 1:51.3 | which is that I am seeing someone. What are the fucking chances? As soon as having a boyfriend |
| 1:56.4 | becomes uncool, I'm like, I got one. I did it. Perfect timing. Great. Great. I do want to talk about |
| 2:04.1 | this whole kind of notion or movement. I have a lot of really awesome call-ins from you guys at the |
| 2:10.8 | end of the episode that we'll get to. And I even got some statistics. Okay? I did a little number crunching. |
| 2:19.1 | So mathematical of me, women in STEM. |
| 2:21.8 | But I got some stats based on the question that I asked this week, which was, |
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