Todd Adams, Zen Parenting Radio.

This is Kathy Adams.

We are going to talk about choosing carefully when sharing your shame.

Meaning.

Meaning.

When you are sharing a sacred part of yourself being thoughtful about who you share with

because we've got some situations where people are oversharers which is one extreme or people don't

share anything at all because they don't trust anybody and then unfortunately all that shame or pain or

whatever gets stuffed down inside.

So this is End Parenting Radio. So for the new listeners, they'd be like, why am I going to

bother listening to this? I want to know how to put my kid in a timeout. What's your response to that?

This probably, well, actually, I think this is a great podcast for you, but we're not, we're not

in the world of teaching you how to do things with your kids.

We're in the world of teaching you how to be more self-aware and how to be more compassionate for yourself and therefore teaching your kids to do the same.

It translates to parenting, but it's not a how-to guide on parenting.

And I don't believe that how-to guides are really effective because

there's too many, there's too many variables. Conflictual advice out there? Different personalities,

different experiences, different situations, different emotional elements. And yeah, I mean,

if you're looking for the expert advice, it's going to be different all across the board.

Before we get into this conversation, I want to talk about our partner, Helping Hands Made Services.

They were here last week, thank goodness.

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