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On Health

Have You Been Medically Hexed? The Power of Words to Heal and to Harm

On Health

Aviva Romm

Health & Fitness, Arts, Alternative Health, Medicine

4.81.4K Ratings

🗓️ 26 March 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever left a doctor’s appointment feeling more defeated than when you arrived? Perhaps a diagnosis felt like a life sentence, or a well-meaning comment planted a seed of fear that lingered for months. This isn’t just bad bedside manner; it’s a phenomenon I call “medical hexing.” It’s the subtle, and sometimes not-so-subtle, way that language in medical settings can disempower us, shaping our beliefs and even our health outcomes. 

Today, we’re diving deep into the power of words in medicine – how they can both heal and profoundly harm. In this episode I give you the down-low on:

  • The Concept of Medical Hexing: How negative language and disempowering beliefs, often unintentionally, can act as a "medical hex," influencing our health beyond just our physical symptoms.
  • The Nocebo Effect's Reality: This isn't just "woo-woo." The "evil twin" of the placebo effect, has a neurobiological basis, demonstrating how negative expectations can directly impact our physiology.
  • Words as Physiological Triggers: The language used by healthcare providers directly impacts our brain and body, triggering stress responses, altering hormone levels, and even influencing our immune systems.
  • The Power Imbalance: The traditional doctor-patient power dynamic can amplify the nocebo effect, making us more susceptible to negative suggestions and limiting our ability to advocate for ourselves.
  • Reclaiming Your Agency: It's crucial to recognize your own expertise in your body and health, to question negative prognoses, and to seek out providers who foster trust and empowerment.
  • The Body's Innate Healing Capacity: We must shift away from a disease-focused model and recognize the body's remarkable ability to heal, a capacity that can be enhanced or diminished by our beliefs.

For a deeper dive into advocating for yourself within the medical system, be sure to read my book, "Hormone Intelligence." It includes a full chapter dedicated to empowering you to get the supportive, respectful healthcare you deserve. 

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0:00.0

From the stuff your mother never told you to the stuff your doctor never learn,

0:09.0

on health is what happens when a midwife plus a Yale trained MD shares about all things

0:14.3

women's health. From periods to menopause, sex to reproductive health politics, motherhood

0:19.7

to mental health, join me for taboo-busting conversations

0:23.1

that demystify and destigmatize our bodies, all while bridging the gap between conventional

0:28.4

medicine and wellness. Along the way, we'll be exploring the science and wisdom of how our bodies

0:33.5

work, what makes us well, what gets in the way, and how we can live our best lives on our terms.

0:40.2

When it comes to women's health and well-being, there's nothing we won't talk about.

0:44.0

The new medicine for women is here. I'm Dr. Avivaram. Welcome to the podcast.

1:02.1

When it comes to health and healing and women's bodies, there's so much beauty and so much power.

1:12.8

And when we interface with the medical model over our needs and concerns, sometimes it can also be wonderful and healing and therapeutic.

1:21.6

But for many women, perhaps for you as well, we experience challenges and obstacles along the way.

1:30.2

I want to share a story that has really stuck with me. Over 35 years ago now, a pregnant friend came to me and she was clearly carrying some worries. She'd been to her obstetrician for a prenatal checkup and during a

1:35.9

routine pelvic exam that he did, which, by the way, isn't always necessary for healthy pregnancies,

1:41.6

and this was in her first trimester, told her based on

1:44.4

her slight build and her height of about 5'2 and her husband's height of 6'2, he was at the prenatal

1:49.7

2, that she'd never be able to push that baby out and would definitely need a cesarean.

1:54.7

Now, that's not a legitimate prognosis that you can make.

1:58.1

You can't assess someone's ability to give birth vaginally based on those

2:02.7

parameters. Fortunately, her intuition kicked in. She switched to me to be her midwife and prepared

2:09.1

for a home birth. She really found her power and her confidence throughout her pregnancy.

2:14.0

And she had a beautiful labor. I remember it like it was yesterday. It was midsummer. It was end of July. And she had a beautiful labor. I remember it like it was yesterday. It was mid-summer. It was

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