Have Some Dixcilplin
We Talk Back
The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts
4.4 • 711 Ratings
🗓️ 10 July 2025
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into everything from their weekend recaps to the messy realities of modern relationships. They unpack Diddy’s latest legal troubles and the ripple effects of abuse and scamming within the community. The conversation takes an unfiltered turn into the idea of “dixcipline”—the practice of sexual discipline—and why it matters. Exploring the push and pull between masculinity and femininity, the hosts reflect on the state of the Black community and the power of self-awareness. With their signature humor and honesty, they wrap up with a reminder to stay mindful, stay disciplined, and make choices that align with self-respect.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an IHeart podcast. |
| 0:04.2 | Show me how good it can get today, God, and show the rest of the world what we already know. |
| 0:09.5 | It can't get no better than being hella black, hella queer, and hella Christian. |
| 0:14.3 | My name is Joseph Rees. |
| 0:16.3 | I am the creator and host of hella black, hella queer, hella Christian. |
| 0:20.5 | A fully black, fully queer, fully human, fully divine podcasts from IHeartMedia to Hella Black, |
| 0:26.7 | Hela Queer, Hella Christian on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. |
| 0:34.7 | I always had to be so good, no one could ignore me. Carve my path with data and drive. |
| 0:41.2 | But some people only see who I am on paper. The paper ceiling. The limitations from degree screens |
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| 1:04.7 | The Girlfriends is back with a new season and this time I'm telling you the story of Kelly |
| 1:09.5 | Hanett. Kelly spent over a decade in prison for a murder she says she didn't commit. |
| 1:15.0 | As she fought for her freedom, she taught herself the law. |
| 1:18.3 | He goes, oh God, Arnett, jailhouse lawyer. |
| 1:21.3 | And became a beacon of hope for the women locked up alongside her. |
| 1:25.5 | You're supposed to have faith in God, but I had nothing but faith in her. |
| 1:28.4 | I think I was put here to save souls by getting people out of prison. |
| 1:33.0 | The Girlfriends, Jail House Lawyer, listen from July 14th on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. |
| 1:42.7 | I know a lot of cops. |
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