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Transformed with Dr. Greg Gifford

HAVE A FRIENDSHIP THAT DRAINS YOU? HERE’S WHAT CHRIST CAN TEACH YOU

Transformed with Dr. Greg Gifford

Fortis Institute

Christianity, Education, Religion & Spirituality

4.9713 Ratings

🗓️ 8 May 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Transformed Podcast Episode 122 | May 08, 2025 Dr. Greg Gifford explores the hard truth about friendships that start to feel more like ministry than mutual connection. Drawing from biblical examples and his own pastoral experience, he explains how to set boundaries without guilt. If you're constantly giving but never receiving, this message will help you reset with grace. – Preorder the new book, Lies My Therapist Told Me, by Fortis Institute Fellow Dr. Greg Gifford now! https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/liesmytherapisttoldme – Thanks for listening! Transformed would not be possible without the financial support of our Gospel Partners. If you would like to support Transformed we would be extremely grateful. VISIT https://fortisinstitute.org/donate/ If you are already a Gospel Partner we couldn’t be more thankful for you if we tried!

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0:00.0

What is? What is? What is? What is biblical counseling?

0:03.9

Biblical counseling will grow you from brokenness to wholeness.

0:07.8

I think what you just said made me look at those scenarios differently.

0:10.5

God replaced all my junk with a beautiful light.

0:14.8

God's really been changing the way that I parent my children.

0:19.9

The most amazing thing is the sufficiency of his word. This is

0:24.4

Transform. And now your host, assistant professor of biblical counseling at the Master's

0:30.1

University and certified biblical counselor, Dr. Greg Gifford. Welcome back to Transform. My name is Dr. Greg Gifford, and I have the privilege of being your host,

0:42.3

and I just got back from Bend, Oregon, Grace Bible Church, and it was a great time.

0:48.7

So if you are looking for a good church in the Bend, Oregon area, Google Grace Bible Church.

0:56.1

So thank you guys for having me up.

0:58.3

Today's episode is, what do you do when a friend becomes ministry?

1:03.3

And in recent conversations with a student, we were talking about how friends can start to move from,

1:10.3

I really appreciate you to this is hard for me to

1:14.3

relate to you, oh no, you're calling. Oh, man. Today I want to kind of address like, what do you,

1:22.0

what do we think about? How do we approach that biblically? What's counsel that we would give

1:26.0

to someone who is entering into that new,

1:28.9

like, are you really my friend? Or is this like ministry and I'm supposed to love you and do good?

1:34.2

So what is a friend fundamentally? I would encourage you, go to the Bible, get your lexicon out.

1:40.6

One of the best ones is the Greek English lexicon of the New Testament, and that's B-Dag.

1:47.0

If you're familiar with that, B-Dag is usually like the New Testament standard when defining

1:52.8

Greek terms. Go define friend, and this is what B-Dag says a friend is, one who is on intimate terms or in close association

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