Hate it, I don’t care, I’m having a great time - Spotlight Effect

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Society & Culture

4.9 • 3.2K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2025

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Do you ever walk into a room and feel like all eyes are on you? Do you feel like you immediately know what they're thinking, and that it's inevitable negative? Turns out you're not the only one. So many of us believe we're being watched that social psychology developed a name for the phenomenon, the Spotlight Effect. RESOURCES- https://thedecisionlab.com/biases/spotlight-effect https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spotlight_effect https://tanmayvora.com/the-spotlight-effect/ https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-spotlight-effect-3024470 WE’RE GOING ON TOUR - https://www.ladiesandtangents.com/live-show WE’RE ON CAMEO - https://www.cameo.com/ladiesandtangents WE'RE ON PATREON - patreon.com/ladiesandtangents MERCH - https://ladiesandtangents.kingsroadmerch.com/ *NEW* SUBMIT YOUR STORIES - landtstories@gmail.com FOLLOW ALONG WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA - @ladiesandtangents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey guys.
0:15.0	I'm Jerry.
0:16.0	We're ladies.
0:17.0	And we tangent.
0:19.0	What's up everyone? Hello.
0:23.5	We're on tour, bitch.
0:25.0	I feel like at the top of the head, I need to just say, we're going on tour.
0:28.6	Oh, we are going on tour.
0:29.6	I was like, is this coming out in the future?
0:31.8	No, I'm so sorry.
0:32.8	I'm sorry.
0:33.3	I messed up my words immediately.
0:34.6	Cut it, cut it all.
0:35.6	Started from the beginning.
0:36.8	Fuck. messed up my words immediately. Cut it, cut it all started from the beginning. I think it's
0:38.3	funny that people always hear when you say, like, cut that out. Yeah. If it stays in, know that I did
0:44.6	ask her. Yes, she asked me. I always ask, hey, did you mean that? Because sometimes I know it's a bit.
0:50.0	And other times, I genuinely should take that out. Yeah, yeah.
0:56.8	A lot of the times I do it just for the bit.
1:00.2	Or actually in the moment, I'll be like, I don't know how that's going to be received.
1:03.0	And then when I listen back with fresh ears, I'm like, nah, fuck it.
1:03.7	It's probably fine.
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