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The Unspeakeasy With Meghan Daum

Has Wokeism Won? Sarah Haider Acknowledges Defeat But Won't Stop Talking.

The Unspeakeasy With Meghan Daum

Meghan Daum

Society & Culture

4.7855 Ratings

🗓️ 6 June 2022

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Sarah Haider is an activist and a writer who became a noted figure in the new atheist movement around 2013, when she co-founded the advocacy group Ex-Muslims of North America. That is a nonprofit that promotes secular values, advocates for acceptance of religious dissent and works to combat discrimination faced by people who leave Islam in the U.S. and Canada. Her work there led to her trenches of the new free speech and free-think movements and she now writes on Substack, covering issues around race, identity, gender and social politics of various kinds. Despite their 20-year age difference, Sarah and Meghan have a lot of overlapping interests; the monoculture of elite media, the social and political myopia of elites in general, the inconvenient truths of the mating economy and and misconceptions around mens's rights, to name just a few.

In the public version of this episode, Sarah and Meghan cover those topics and more. The Patreon version includes an extra 40 minutes where they talk about Sarah's upbringing and her relationship to Islam. Sarah came to the U.S. from Pakistan at age seven and was a devout Muslim until she had a dramatic change of perspective as a teenager. To hear that part, join the Patreon at patreon.com/theunspeakable

Guest Bio:

Sarah Haider has spent much of her professional life in the charitable world, co-founding two nonprofit organizations, including Ex-Muslims of North America. Today she spends much of her time thinking and writing about belief, social dynamics, and culture. You can find her writing on her Substack newsletter, Hold That Thought. Also find on Twitter at @SarahtheHaider. 

Transcript

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0:00.0

I want to believe that things are going to get better soon.

0:07.9

I think that it is that we've trapped ourselves in a situation.

0:14.0

We're getting out has a lot of negative consequences.

0:17.0

I mean, what you're saying, there are a lot of people that are like us that are speaking out now. I think a very small minority of us are able to continue on

0:25.5

and make a living while espousing. Don't say us either. Yes, exactly. Not necessarily, I mean,

0:31.6

I'm barely in this camp, right? But there's so few of us for whom it is even like a reasonable dream that you

0:42.5

can hold these views and still, you know, be in the intellectual discourse in one way or another

0:48.9

and make a living. For the vast majority of people, it's, this is not a reality. This is not something they can count on.

0:55.4

And to espouse these views means losing their job.

0:58.5

Increasingly in the culture-making institutions, right, increasingly in academia, in the media

1:05.5

as a whole, in various cultural, like just arts-based institutions. So it's, if you're in this kind of,

1:14.7

in these kinds of spaces, these spaces, which are, which have huge influence on what we think

1:20.6

as a society and how we feel as a society and how we, you know, understand our current

1:26.5

moments, you know, and articulate them.

1:29.2

If these, if you want to participate and be a thinking person, you want to be a writer,

1:34.7

you want to be a journalist, writing an anti-woke thing might get you blacklisted in so many

1:41.1

different places.

1:41.7

It's already hard to make it as a journalist.

1:43.9

So, you know, are you going to take this way?

1:50.3

Welcome to the unspeakable podcast. I'm your host, Megan Dome. My guest, whose voice you just heard, is Sarah Hater. I'm going to tell you about her in a minute,

2:02.5

but first, a little housekeeping, some exciting housekeeping, actually. Last week in my interview

2:08.4

with Jonathan Haidt, you may have heard me talk about a project that I've been working on over the

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