Harvard Professor: The Real Reason Marriages Fall Apart (With Dr. Arthur Brooks)

The Dr. John Delony Show

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Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships

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🗓️ 20 September 2024

⏱️ 77 minutes

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In this episode, John sits down with Harvard professor Arthur Brooks to discuss the brain chemistry of love, why dating apps don’t work, and how to overcome a victim mentality. Next Steps: 🧠Learn more about Arthur Brooks: Arthur Brooks - Teaching the Science of Happiness. Live Better. Be Happier. Follow Arthur on Instagram @arthurcbrooks 📙Read and more by Arthur Brooks The Art and Science of Getting Happier and more by Arthur Brooks. 📞 Ask John a question! Call 844-693-3291 or send us a message. 📚 Building a Non-Anxious Life 📝 Anxiety Test  📚 Own Your Past, Change Your Future  ❓ Questions for Humans Conversation Cards  💭 John's Free Guided Meditation  🤘🏼The Dr. John Delony Show T-Shirts Connect With Our Sponsors: 10% off your first month of therapy at BetterHelp 3 free months of Hallow  25% off Thorne orders  20% off Organifi with code DELONY 25% off plus 2 free pillows at Helix Sleep $350 off Pod 4 Ultra at Eight Sleep  40% off Cozy Earth products with code DELONY 20% off DeleteMe with code DELONY 10% off the Core Package or the All-In Package with code DELONY at Marek Health Use code DELONY at Poncho for any button-down shirt order and you’ll receive a t-shirt or hat as a gift. Listen to More From Ramsey Network: 🎙️ The Ramsey Show 💸 The Ramsey Show Highlights   🍸 Smart Money Happy Hour 💡 The Rachel Cruze Show 💰 George Kamel 💼 The Ken Coleman Show 📈 EntreLeadership Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy https://www.ramseysolutions.com/company/policies/privacy-policy

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0:00.0	Coming up on the Dr. John Deloney Show.
0:07.0	You establish a relationship.
0:08.0	What do you want it to be?
0:09.0	What's the goal?
0:10.0	And the answer is generally between two and five years after the initiation of the relationship
0:14.2	you don't want passionate love you want companionate love marriage cannot be
0:19.0	organized over the long term around something that's not deep friendship.
0:22.8	That's not happily ever John with the Dr. John
0:34.3	Deloney's show. I'm so so grateful that you are here. In my opinion, this is
0:41.0	one of the most important episodes I've ever been a part of.
0:44.7	This is one of those episodes that as soon as it was over, I made some changes in my life.
0:49.4	And my life, in my marriage, in my relationship with my kids is different because of the experience I had
0:56.5	recording this episode. All the way from Boston, Massachusetts, the great
1:02.0	Dr Arthur Brooks, joined me and he is somebody who has long
1:07.4	been a lighthouse for me thinking about
1:13.2	happiness and love, faith, and living and building better lives. And he is a professor in the Kennedy School of Business at Harvard University,
1:25.8	where he teaches courses on happiness, the science of happiness, the science of love,
1:31.4	and how the stuff all worked in this madhouse world we've created for
1:35.2	ourselves. So here's a deal. We cover love, the brain chemistry of love, faith in
1:41.6	science, how to find love and how to re-ignite love, how to find and
1:47.6	create happiness, almost regardless of your situation.
1:51.8	We talk about agency and choice, We talk about so, so much. And again, I left this conversation.
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