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Assalamu alaikum my brothers and sisters those of us who like perfection and we want to see everything in a specific order

smart, clean, neat and

Ordily remember not everyone is like that in fact very few people are like that

So it would become very difficult to live with others

Because a lot of the people may not be as particular as you are for those things

So remember to adjust don't take these things too seriously because

One people will begin to dislike you

Number two you will become so agitated and irritated

It may make you say words that are hurtful or it might even stress you and depress you

So from time to time no problem if things are all strong if things might not be orderly if things are not neat

If things might be a little bit dirty if the children come in with a lot of mud and sand and dirt once in a while

That's okay. It's fine and Subhan Allah when you want to live with people you need to understand that

They may be different different temperament

I know of people who get married they were perfectionists, but their spouses are not and

Then they begin to have a problem out of nothing you need to realize not everyone is going to be on your level

So don't be hard and fast you may continue to be neat and clean

Obviously we all are to a great degree, but

Not everyone is upon your level of

Needness and orderliness so take it easy

You don't want to create enemies you don't want to come across as a person whom no one wants to live with

No one wants to interact with you might find yourself yelling and screaming every day

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