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Hard-Won Marriage Lessons from 50+ Years Together: Dennis & Barbara Rainey

FamilyLife Today®

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4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 20 March 2026

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Dennis & Barbara Rainey know marriage is hard and messy. They share decades of insight—faith-based, practical, and no sugarcoating—to survive the everyday mess.

Transcript

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This episode is supported in part by the Christian Standard Bible, a translation designed to be faithful to the original text and clear for everyday readers.

0:10.0

We're grateful for their partnership and helping bring gospel-centered content to families like yours.

0:15.3

To learn more about the CSB, visit CSBival.com.

0:23.6

The unresolved conflict in your marriage, the issues you're facing with one another,

0:29.0

personality differences, background differences, all your different preferences in life,

0:34.1

they wilt in the presence of Almighty God when you both find a way to bow your wills.

0:40.7

Because praying together every day means two individuals, in this case two very strong-willed individuals,

0:48.4

yield to God and recognize Him as the Almighty and that we surrender to him afresh.

1:01.6

Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

1:07.5

I'm Ann Wilson.

1:08.6

And I'm Dave Wilson, and you can find us at familyliftay.com. This is

1:13.0

Family Life today. Welcome to Family Life. Today, we're going cruising. Yeah, we are. We're

1:25.7

going cruising with who? Dennis and Barbara Rainy. They were on the cruise ship back in February and gave a talk on the 4.5 Christian Principles for Elasting Marriage, which was sort of weird. I said, Dennis, what's the point five? He goes, you've got to come to the talk and find out. Well, guess what? You're going to find out today because this is a recording of the talk they gave on the Love Like You Meena Cruise. I just got to tell you, you got to be with us next February. We're going back out on the boat, February 13th through the 20th and 2027. And it's like the most epic week of the year. We can't even explain what it's like

2:04.3

for couples, but man, just to have the time to relax, to sleep in, to have fun, to hear some really

2:10.7

incredible messages that are biblically based in how-toes and practical. Wouldn't it be nice

2:17.1

if there was a great sale going on?

2:19.3

And there is. You can get a deal right now through March 31st. Here's how you do it. Click

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2:29.8

Click on the link that says, I'm signing up to do it. And I know you're like, man, it costs a lot of money to do something like that. Yep, it does. And it's an investment in your marriage that you'll never, ever regret. Trust me, we know. We're getting off the boat just back in February and all these couples were like, this was one of the greatest weeks of our life and our marriage and we're doing it again

2:51.4

next year. You want to be with us. Again, click the banner at family lifetay.com and join us. Okay,

2:57.3

let's go listen to Dennis and Barbara. Well, we're glad to be here. We are. Well, we're

3:06.9

looking forward to sharing with you this evening some lessons that we've learned over our 53 years of marriage.

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