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Finding Joy in Your Home

Hard Doesn’t (Necessarily) Mean Bad – Hf #327

Finding Joy in Your Home

Jami Balmet

Religion & Spirituality, Homemaking, Living, Kids & Family, Christian, Mother, Healthy, Christianity, Joy, Homemaker, Wife

4.9654 Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2021

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

In our culture, we run from hard things. We tend to think that hard = bad or wrong. But today I'm going to give you some encouragement that hard doesn't necessarily mean bad. In fact, God often does His biggest work in Hard. Listen in! Listen to the Podcast: And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast in iTunes. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. We get asked a lot how we do certain things: run a business from home with 6 kids, travel full time, go out to eat with said kids, homeschool all of them without losing our minds, etc. And honestly, most of what we do doesn't seem overly mystifying to us, but some of it is really hard. A big theme in our life has become: hard doesn't mean bad. Often in our culture, we equate hard with bad. We think that if things are hard, they must be wrong. Or that we are doing them wrong. For example: Newborn days and entering motherhood can be HARD. That doesn't mean we are doing it wrong. Some homeschool days are terrible. It doesn't mean the sacrifice isn't worth it. Traveling all around the country with 6 young kids can be exhausting. It doesn't mean the education and exploration isn't worth every single second. In our culture today, we've been trained to think that hard is bad. We feel like life should be easy and good, not tough and hard. So we either assume we are doing something wrong or that the hard isn't worth pushing through. The thing is: most worthwhile things in life ARE hard. Getting a college degree is HARD. But it can be worth every single bit of work. Pregnancy and labor is hard. But it produces new life. Discipleship is hard, and exhausting, and frustrating at times...But it's God's work in our children's lives (and in our own lives). God disciplines us and it's often so hard. But it produces the fruit of the Spirit. "God’s sovereignty is exercised primarily for His glory. But because you and I are in Christ Jesus, His glory and our good are linked together. Because we are united with Christ, whatever is for His glory is also for our good. And whatever is for our good is for His glory." “God does not willingly bring affliction or grief to us. He does not delight in causing us to experience pain or heartache. He always has a purpose for the grief He brings or allows to come into our lives. Most often we do not know what that purpose is, but it is enough to know that His infinite wisdom and perfect love have determined that the particular sorrow is best for us. God never wastes pain. He always uses is to accomplish His purpose. And His purpose is for His glory and our good. Therefore, we can trust Him when our hearts are aching or our bodies are racked with pain.” ― Jerry Bridges, Trusting God: Even When Life Hurts Links & Resources: Book recommendation: Trusting God: Even When Life Hurts Our Sponsor: Go to HelloFresh.com/homemaking12 and use code homemaking12 for 12 free meals, including free shipping!

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is The Homemaking Foundation's podcast with Jamie Belmay, episode number 327.

0:06.5

Welcome to the Homemaking Foundation's podcast, where we give you the tools, inspiration, and encouragement you need to craft a gospel-centered home.

0:14.9

And now your host from youngwifesguide.com, Jamie Belmay.

0:20.2

Hey, ladies, welcome back to my podcast.

0:23.5

Today is a very important topic.

0:26.1

We are talking about when hard doesn't necessarily mean bad.

0:30.6

And I think this is a really important conversation to have right now.

0:33.8

I'm going to keep this episode short and sweet because I think this topic just lends

0:40.5

itself well to that. But first, I have a couple of announcements. You are going to hear from our

0:45.0

sponsor, Hello Fresh in a little while. And I did want to update you guys. We have a lot of

0:49.9

changes coming down the road. And I know I've mentioned this on a lot of episodes, but I want

0:53.2

as many people to know as possible. We have a bunch of things coming up. So my blog, Young Wife's Guide,

0:59.9

this podcast, the Homemaking Foundation's podcast, they are being rebranded in the next three

1:05.2

weeks, all under the new name of finding joy in your home. And our tagline there is all for God's glory.

1:12.6

So our gospel-centeredness is not going away.

1:15.6

We're just kind of defining it better into finding that joy in your home for God's glory

1:20.6

and really just bringing everything under the same name and umbrella.

1:24.6

Over the years of building this business in this blog since 2012,

1:29.5

we've just added too many different things with different names. And so we're just simplifying.

1:34.9

So that will be rolling out. You will see that change here on the podcast in the next three to four

1:39.4

weeks. Finally, I kept telling you guys it was coming in quarter one, but we are now down to the

1:43.8

countdown on this.

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