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Hard Choices: The Toxic Ex, or The New Girl Whos Nice To Me?

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2021

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

What you should do if your toxic ex, who you still love, wants another chance after dumping you, but you’re now dating a girl who’s nice to you.


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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. And the topic of today's

0:05.3

newsletter is going to be hard choices. The toxic X or the new girl who's nice to me.

0:14.3

So I've got an email. This is from a guy. He says my work has changed his life. So for the past

0:20.6

year and a half, he's been in a toxic on

0:24.6

again off again relationship with a woman who is just really nasty and harsh to him she'll break up with

0:31.5

them she'll dump him tell him she feels nothing for him basically only to come back and want to get back together again,

0:40.3

and then the whole thing starts over.

0:43.3

Well, this last time, he doesn't really go into detail, but it seems like he probably found my work

0:49.3

since the last time he had gone through a breakup with this toxic woman.

0:58.5

And in between that breakup, he started dating this new girl who's really nice,

1:04.8

because obviously he's applying what's in 3% man, and he attracted a woman who's nice to him.

1:10.0

So the thing to keep in mind about this particular email is because he has a year and a half with a toxic X.

1:11.5

He got dumped. He didn't want to be dumped.

1:12.7

And if you remember, rejection tends to breed obsession.

1:18.4

So because he got dumped and it wasn't his choice and on top of the fact that he's got

1:22.7

a year and a half with her, he's going to be more emotionally anchored to the ex even though she's toxic to him so

1:31.9

he writes in asking do i give the ex another chance because the new girl sounds like she wants him to be

1:39.8

her boyfriend and they get along great but obviously obviously, remember, we always make our choices based

1:46.0

on our emotions and then we use logic and reason to justify that. So just because of what he's

1:53.1

been through with the X, his emotions are going to be a lot stronger. But obviously, if you look at somebody's actions in their history, if it always

2:04.9

ended the same way, then as Gerald Salente of the Trends Research Institute says, current

2:11.5

events form future trends.

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