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The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey

Happy Hour #468: Secret shame and rewriting our past with Bonnie Gray

The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey

Ivey Media

Personal Journals, Religion, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

57.1K Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2022

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Bonnie Gray grew up as a Chinese-American daughter of a mail-order bride and spent much of her childhood never feeling like she belonged. She talks about going on a journey to learn her own story and going through life with an emotionally abusive mother.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey friends and welcome to the happy hour with Jamie Ivy podcast.

0:03.8

I'm your host Jamie and I'm so glad you're here.

0:06.4

Each week on this show, I invite a friend to join me and we chat about the big things in life,

0:10.6

the little things in life and everything in between.

0:23.7

Hey friends and welcome to episode number 468 of the happy hour with Jamie Ivy.

0:28.8

I'm your host Jamie and as always, I'm really glad you're here.

0:32.4

Welcome to Friday. Today on the show is Bonnie Gray.

0:34.8

She released a book in the last year called Sweet Like Jasmine and you guys, it's a memoir.

0:39.5

And if you want to know something about me, it is that I love a good memoir.

0:44.0

I really do. It's like one of my favorite genres of books to read.

0:47.5

In this book, Bonnie recounts the journey to make peace with her past, which who has not had to do that.

0:53.5

And if you haven't, you're going to be encouraged today to kind of go through that.

0:57.5

Bonnie's the American daughter of a male order bride and a bus boy working in San Francisco's China town.

1:02.6

She never felt like she actually belonged.

1:04.4

She's been her childhood, never feeling truly seen, loved or beautiful.

1:08.1

Then at 39, she found a birth certificate in an old file cabinet and we talked about that today.

1:12.0

And it took her on a journey of rediscovering her past.

1:15.5

You guys are going to find something in this show just for you.

1:18.0

I know it because even though that's not my story in particular, I was moved by listening to Bonnie talk about her story.

1:23.2

And I was encouraged.

1:24.4

In fact, a lot of what Bonnie's doing is what I talk about in a previous book that I released.

1:28.8

And in fact, if you go to my Instagram today, we're doing a giveaway for both of our books

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