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Vibrant Happy Women

Happy Bit: Put Fear In the Backseat

Vibrant Happy Women

Jen Riday

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8671 Ratings

🗓️ 22 October 2017

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

Failure is a great teacher; fear is not. Learn how to analyze your fear, stop procrastinating and take charge of your life again with an easy fear-neutralizing strategy.

Learn how to put fear in the backseat (Elizabeth Gilbert) and keep moving forward on your journey.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, what's up? Jen here, and this is a happy bit. I've been thinking about procrastination this

0:07.2

week and wondering why we do it. Well, I realized the root of procrastination in general is fear.

0:16.4

Fear that we're not good enough, that we're not going to perform good enough, that we're going to let

0:21.2

someone down. Wow, right? In her book, Big Magic, Elizabeth Gilbert talks about fear and how we need

0:28.2

to put fear in the backseat and never, ever let it drive. Fear is a long for the ride and we have

0:34.5

to make the choice to dance with the fear, to understand the fear,

0:37.7

but to never ever let it make choices for us. Many of you have told me you want to write a book

0:43.4

or start a business or tackle that mountain of laundry or get your garage organized or whatever it is.

0:50.0

These projects can seem just completely overwhelming. Often we're afraid that we don't even know where to start or that it's going to take forever

0:58.0

or that we'll never finish it.

0:59.6

There's a lot of unknowns in that formula.

1:01.8

Well, we can tackle the fear by breaking it down into bite-sized pieces.

1:07.2

So if you wanted to organize the garage, it might begin by purchasing some totes or getting some hooks on the walls,

1:13.7

just sitting in the space and visualizing where you want everything to go, creating a picture in your mind first,

1:19.0

then writing a list of every component, and then writing down how long each component will take,

1:24.5

and then breaking it out. Okay, I see that I have about five hours of work here

1:29.2

and if I give it two hours a weekend for the rest of the month, I'll be done before the end of the

1:34.2

month. And then you break it down and go for it, chunk by chunk by chunk. So that's called chunking.

1:39.7

It helps reduce the fear because you become knowledgeable about all the pieces.

1:49.6

Now, it's so funny, but a lot of times when we're procrastinating, we will get really busy with other things.

1:51.0

We actually avoid the thing we want to do most or need to do most by staying busy with all

1:56.7

these other things.

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