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The Mel Robbins Podcast

Happiness Is an Option for You: 4 Easy Habits That Make Your Life Better Based on Research

The Mel Robbins Podcast

SiriusXM Podcasts

Education, Mental Health, Relationships, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.810.6K Ratings

🗓️ 29 June 2023

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, you’re going to learn the 4 happiness habits that, based on research, are scientifically proven to make you happier in 21 days. Happiness is not only possible; it is an option for you. Our guest today is one of the most respected happiness researchers in the world. Shawn Achor is the author of 4 New York Times bestsellers and has created the largest happiness training program in the world. He is here to prove to you that happiness is not only possible but also an option for you. This conversation is packed with practical and proven tools that you can put to work in your life immediately. We will also dig deep into the research that supports everything that you are about to learn. Shawn goes deeper than he has ever gone in an interview, discussing his struggle with depression and how these 4 habits have helped him climb out of it. Get out your notebook because we are drilling into decades of psychological research that will ladder up to more meaning in your life. Today you’ll learn: How to find happiness amidst pain and fear The 4 simple habits that create more happiness What Shawn calls the ‘turning point’ for his struggle with depression How to be happy even when you’re lonely and the importance of connection and community The first step YOU need to take to living a happier, more meaningful life Happiness is not an emotion; it is a framework, and that framework is getting built today! Xo Mel In this episode you’ll learn: 2:04: What is the definition of happiness? 3:12: Where can you find happiness amidst pain and fear? 10:41: What happens when you become fearful that you will never be happy again? 12:53: Step #1 to claiming happiness is recognition. This is why. 14:05: This is YOUR starting point for living a happier life. 15:49: These 4 simple habits for 21 days will change your life. 17:53: What kept Shawn going: the habits that pulled him out of a depression. 21:22: Reminder: Happiness is a team sport. 29:24: What loneliness actually is 32:37: The importance of social connection and community 35:14 The story we tell ourselves is how we navigate our lives. 40:35: It’s not the end of your story; the reminder I even needed 45:47: Happiness is an option, not a choice. 48:58: What Shawn learned in Flint, Michigan, about mindset and behavior 51:52: The tools and takeaways you need to remember after this conversation Disclaimer

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, it's your friend Mel and welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast.

0:05.7

All right, let's do this thing.

0:08.5

Okay, are you ready to put your happiness hat on?

0:13.5

I know I am.

0:14.6

I have a really cool show for you.

0:17.0

We have the OG of Happiness Research.

0:20.3

His name, Sean Acre, Harvard educated works with all the major brands teaching one of

0:28.2

the largest and most successful positive psychology training programs in the world.

0:33.0

Not only that, but he has written three New York Times bestselling books.

0:37.8

Sean says, you and I have happiness all wrong.

0:41.0

The definition is wrong.

0:42.4

That's part of the problem.

0:43.9

So today, here's what we're going to do.

0:46.4

We're going to get Sean on the line.

0:48.1

And I, of course, I'm going to hold his feet to the fire.

0:51.1

And I'm going to listen to that scientific stuff.

0:53.4

And then we are going to break it down into normal people's feet because research is wonderful.

0:57.6

But if I can't apply the shit to my life, I am going to be a miserable bitch.

1:01.4

And we are going to make sure that we leave here with happiness tools in our pockets and

1:06.3

motivation in our backseat so that we not only learn and listen and laugh today, but that

1:12.3

we also put it into action.

1:15.3

All righty.

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