Naughty check. Naughty check. Naughty check. I was a bit naughty.

You know how I don't like totally understand the difference between you and I when it comes to

objects and memorabilia and mementos and things? What's not to understand? It seems very clear.

Well, I realise we're different, but I'm just always trying to understand it better. So I've come

up with a hypothetical scenario. Oh, okay. And I want to know how you would read it. And I know

this is just a crazy hypothetical scenario, but it will help me better understand you. So just go

with me for a second. Okay, so we're doing a thought experiment. A thought experiment. Yep. I was

trying to think of someone who's famous who I think you hold in high regard. So I've gone for

Elon Musk right? Okay. All right. Say Elon Musk came to London. And for some reason he emailed you and

said, oh, CGP Grey, I hear you live in London. And I've liked a couple of your videos and I just

wonder if you want to go for a coffee. Okay. I'm assuming you would say yes to that. So you go for

a quick coffee with him and you just chat about whatever you two want to chat about. And while you're

at coffee, he like has a napkin or something and he's just sketching and drawing. And he draws

like just a funny picture of you two sitting at a table and at the end he just signs it and says,

oh, do you want this? I just drew this of us sitting here having a chat. To Grey, great to meet you.

Elon Musk. What do you do with that napkin? Well, there's two things that occur here. One of which is

trying to navigate social graces. Yep. So I think there are many times when you need to be

seen as receiving a gift that you have no intention of actually keeping. So you're not going to

screw it up and throw it in his face obviously. Because as I have learned my interactions with people

over my life, sometimes you have to try to accept what the person is doing, not like the actual

nitpicky details of the situation. Yep. A person is just trying to extend a nice gesture. Yeah.

And you need to accept the gesture because rejecting it is a whole other indication that is not

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