Growing Mindsets and Making Impacts with Tom Bilyeu

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2019

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by entrepreneur and founder of Impact Theory Tom Bilyeu to talk about why a growth mindset is vital to achieving your goals – in your career and your relationships!

The two discuss what “having a growth mindset” actually means – and how can you get your partner on board, how to limit your negative self-talk so you don’t limit your potential, and what you can do to make sure your connection lasts (hint: communication is key) – because relationships take work.

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0:00.0	There's like a very predictable cycle that people go on.
0:03.2	Men become successful and as their partner ages, they become less attractive.
0:08.4	And so they end up splitting.
0:09.4	The guys become more valuable over time and based on traditional standards of what people
0:13.5	are valued for, men are valued for access to resources, women are valued for beauty.
0:17.3	So I'm like, we are on like opposite paths.
0:19.5	I'm going to grow more valuable to the average woman and you're going to grow less valuable
0:23.4	to the average man.
0:24.6	So what I need you to understand is I don't prize that.
0:27.3	But I prize in you is a shared life.
0:30.4	There's no way to do that.
0:31.4	The only thing that can be it has to be done in real time.
0:33.7	You can't short circuit that.
0:35.2	So I'm telling you right now, not only do I love you, not only am I on fire for you
0:39.4	sexually, but and I respect you.
0:42.5	But I am committed to you.
0:44.7	And so it's that commitment that gives us a bond and that shit is like fire man.
0:48.8	That's how a relationship age as well because like you're just you're raw, you're vulnerable,
0:53.2	you open yourself up completely.
0:57.3	Look into his eyes.
1:01.5	They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex.
1:06.2	Eyes that mock our sacred institutions.
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