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🗓️ 18 November 2025
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This episode is about growing apart and needing space. Not allowing your ego to get in the way of maintaining relationships or friendships that are meaningful to you. It’s really hard when you love someone or you want to make it work with them but it’s just not happening. If you can relate this episode is for you.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to another episode of Self-Care and Chill and Maui. Everybody's favorite relationship podcast. I'm getting sick, y'all. The last episode was last month. Let's give you a recap on what's been going on in my life. A couple days after I dropped the episode, it was my son's birthday. I also will leave a link in the description for my substack |
| 0:24.2 | because I wrote a little blog on my son turning 12 and me being super emotional. |
| 0:32.3 | Of course I got three kids, but my son being the oldest, we grew up together, okay? We went like me not having no |
| 0:43.5 | job, me sleeping on my grandma couch, me getting my first apartment with him. I just feel like |
| 0:49.0 | it's a different connection with my oldest son because we've been through the trenches |
| 0:53.0 | together. Whereas though my younger children, they're not going to experience that because I had them at a more |
| 0:59.4 | stable place in my life so me crying on my son birthday he's like mom is this going to be like |
| 1:06.6 | a tradition every year that you're going to cry and it's like boy i love you like and it's like a couple |
| 1:14.2 | not too long ago you was my little baby that was bringing home from the hospital not knowing what |
| 1:20.6 | i'm about to do with a baby like just to think like i know there's so many of us who might be listening |
| 1:26.1 | who you might have been a young mom. |
| 1:28.0 | I wasn't super young, but I was still 20. |
| 1:29.7 | I didn't know nothing about nothing. |
| 1:31.8 | I didn't even know what it meant to be a woman or to be my own individual or to love myself or to be independent. |
| 1:37.1 | And now I'm over here carrying the weight of one of the most hardest responsibilities, which is being somebody's mother and keeping somebody alive. |
| 1:48.8 | So, yeah, this is going to be a tradition. |
| 1:52.0 | You growing older, all my kids only birthday, I cry, but you my big baby and like to watch |
| 1:57.2 | you grow into your own person and have your own hobbies and passion. |
| 2:01.3 | It's just a lot, girl. |
| 2:02.5 | Oh my gosh. |
| 2:04.5 | Like I told you guys, we got a place in New York, so I've been back and forth. |
| 2:09.8 | And probably at the end of December, I will be permanently in New York. |
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