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It's I-do part two, and we're your favorite festies, Thelma and Louise.

Today we're going to, quote, jump into bed and talk about all the things that come with sex and chapter 2 dating.

It can be scary and intimidating, but oh so fun to get intimate after being with one partner for so long.

So today we're joined by relationship coach Dr. Shanna Bromley to talk all about it.

Hi, Dr. Shanna. We are so excited to talk to you today, like have been anticipating this all

afternoon. So thank you for meeting with us. First of all, you're so pretty. I would think

like everybody is like knocking down your door to date you. I'd want to have sex with you.

You guys are sweet. I think gorgeous too. So Dr. Shana, you recently contributed to an article

titled Our Pajamas Ruining Your Sex Life. And absolutely phenomenal title,

by the way. And a question for you, what did you mean by that? So your bedtime routine is so much

more than just a habit. It is a reflection of how you see yourself. And if you stop treating yourself,

somebody was desiring, then that energy just

seeps into everything. It's so much more than just how your partner sees you. It's how you feel

when you look in the mirror when you're going to bed. And let me ask you guys, what do you

wear to bed these days? Louise, why don't you start? Because you have a very specific outfit.

Okay. So I thought a very specific outfit. Okay.

So I thought a lot about this when I read your article because my experience with my husband first and then different guys I've dated in the nine years that I've been divorced was, you know,

I think because when I go out for work or I go out to dinner, like I'm very put together, right? Like I have, you know, the blowdrys, the makeup, kind of like

this like glamorous affect that I found that when I came home and put on the more soft kind of

thumb away, that my husband or my boyfriends would be like all over me.

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