Welcome to the Girl On Top, Shaolin Exo podcast. I'm your host Shaolin Lester and you

might know me from my YouTube channel where I analyze select relationships and scandals

for the lessons we can take into our own lives. But here on the podcast, I answer the best

questions you submitted over the past week.

Welcome back to the podcast, Shaolin Exo. Well, last week, both here on Girl On Top and

my YouTube channel, we were doing grad week, where we were talking about all the magic

and wonderfulness that is graduating from college. Oh my God, it's a nightmare. It's an

absolute hellscape. It's an existential cesspool. So we did some videos and like I said, a podcast

on kind of how to sort out your feelings, your career, job interviews. I mean, we talked

about it from an existential point of view. And we talked about it from a nitty gritty point

of view. How do you act when you're interviewing for jobs and when you're applying? What's the

vibe? What do you say? What do you not say? So I wanted to kind of continue with that theme

this week and talk more about the concept of I just I don't have it all figured out.

I talk to you guys all the time and the thing that I hear the most often from recent college

grads or even girls just in their 20s. Hey girl, even in your 30s is I just don't have

it all figured out and I'm stressed because I don't have it all figured out. I want to

talk about that and also how that relates to two things that might seem either one in the

same to you or they might seem like complete polar opposites. Manifestation and entitlement.

You might be manifesting all wrong and vice versa. Okay, this kind of sounds like a

weird jumble. I promise it's going to make sense. We're going to get into it. But before

we do, as you know, I just got back from our shalligator getaway to Costa Rica and while I was

down there, I had the opportunity to connect with a charity called Kids Saving the Rainforest.

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