Grad Week (Sorta): When You Can’t Be Happy For Your Friends
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Shallon Lester
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 15 June 2022
⏱️ 31 minutes
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This week I’ll tell you how I learned to stop seething over my friends love or accomplishments and how to feel confident in my own lane and life!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Girl on Top Shalyn XO podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | I'm your host Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze |
| 0:11.0 | celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives. |
| 0:15.0 | But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week. |
| 0:25.1 | Welcome back Shalogators. This week, |
| 0:31.1 | you know, I hesitate to say this is another extension of grad week, because honestly, this is an issue you're going to have to deal with more than just in your early 20s or your mid-20s, |
| 0:36.6 | or your late 20s, or your early 30s. It is being on completely |
| 0:41.3 | different pages as your friends in terms of not just, oh, somebody has a boyfriend and someone |
| 0:47.4 | doesn't. Someone might have a kid or a husband or several husbands and several children. |
| 0:53.1 | How do you maintain friendships when y'all are all over the place? |
| 0:57.0 | And more importantly, how do you not compare your life to their life, your path to their path, |
| 1:03.0 | and instead learn to give each other some space and preserve the friendship rather than throwing |
| 1:09.0 | everything out just because you're not exactly |
| 1:11.2 | in the exact same season at the exact same time. |
| 1:14.0 | We're going to get into it and break it all down. |
| 1:16.5 | First, I want to remind you if you need a little one-on-one help with me, head to my website, |
| 1:20.2 | shallenluster.com. |
| 1:22.2 | Also, if you would consider donating to our fundraiser to help rainforest baby animals, little rescued sloths and antedaters and dolphins and sea turtles, and a whole bunch of other adorable little snouts out in Costa Rica. It would mean so much to me. If my advice has ever helped you, I'd really appreciate you paying it forward, even with $5 or $10 that can help feed a baby animal for a week. The charity is called Kids Saving the Rainforest. |
| 1:44.8 | It's a 501C verified, vetted charity that's been around for three decades. So go ahead and |
| 1:49.8 | click the link down in the show notes to pitch in. Love you guys so much. Okay, let's get into it. |
| 1:55.0 | So the reason I'm bringing this up, as always, it's affecting my life. You know, like I always am |
| 2:00.7 | only just five minutes down the |
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