Long ago, Missy thought abortion was the right choice, but she was misinformed about what was really going on.

There wasn't much truth there, and there was no physical evidence that they could show me any different than the lies that I had been told, such as, you know, it's a lot of the tissue and if you do it quickly, it's not a baby,

all those lives. And these ultrasounds, these ultrasounds show them it is life. So that's why

I support Operation ultrasound. God healed Missy's heart. And today, she's a pro-life advocate.

And focus on the family is equipping her to help

others. I want other women who are sitting like me, sitting in church, or dealing with that

shame and secrecy, to know that there's hope and healing. I'm Jim Daly. Let's save babies

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When you're a young couple, one of the keys to growth is to learn from your mistakes.

I'm John Fuller, along with Aaron and

Greg Smalley, who lead the Focus Marriage Department. And I don't know why. Our producer always has

me asking you the question, how did you mess up? So we'll just go with that for today, right?

We'll say, Aaron, what was a mistake that maybe you and Greg had to push through and learn from early

on in your marriage?

Remember, Aaron, he said Aaron.

So you can't tell a mistake that I did.

Well, we collectively made plenty of mistakes.

But I always say mistakes are opportunities to fail forward and to learn and grow.

And I will say that's what we've done 32 years later.

But I would say some of the things, walking into marriage, not dealing with personal

baggage.

And I mean, for you, it was...

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