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The murder of an 18-year-old girl in Graves County, Kentucky, went unsolved for years,

until a local housewife, a journalist, and a handful of girls came forward with a story.

America, y'all better work the hell up.

Bad things happens to good people in small towns.

Listen to Graves County on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.

And to binge the entire season, add free, subscribe to's some of your favorite fill-in hosts.

From The Golden Bachelor Season 1, it's Kathy Swartz.

And Susan Knowles, and we're in San Francisco with Iheart for the Jonas Brothers concert.

And we're having the best time hanging out with the crew, huh, Kathy? Yeah, we are. And on this path, who knew?

On this podcast, we're always asking you to call and write in when you need advice. So today,

we're going to be answering your questions.

Oh, boy, here we go.

First one's from Allison and Omaha.

I'm going on my first date since losing my husband five years ago.

I haven't been on a date in over 30 years.

What's something I should try to do on the date so that he gets to know me and I'm not

just nervous? Drink heavily. No, this, you know, this is actually an easy question because

Allison, I'm right there with you. I'm just dating and my husband died six years ago.

So here's my advice to you.

You should ask him questions about himself because everybody loves to talk about themselves.

And if you ask him something about himself, you know, his family, what he does, what he likes to do on a weekend,

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