where does our identity come from? Does it come from looking inward or does it come

from looking upward and knowing God and knowing who he says that I am and so if

you are not a believer in God it makes perfect sense that you have to look

inward or you have to ask people's advice to figure out who you are but if we

are believers in God and we trust the Scripture then we find who we are by

knowing him and by putting faith in to what he says about us welcome to family

life today where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most

I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson you can find us at

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ahead and tell them what you just said. We're gonna talk about sensitive topic

today the topic of sex. I started the program even before I'm like I have a

headache with this topic that wasn't purposeful I really do have a headache we

are it's so funny because of this topic though yeah no I mean that's why it's

it's funny and Dr. Julie Slattery sitting over there she said I'm analyzing you I

know a headache is never just a headache you know I mean there's there's

something really you know what we we haven't get it really but what is going on

in our marriage what is really it's a good friend she's an author she's a

therapist she and her husband are both traveling speaking working together

now how is it they're working together because this is sort of new it is yeah

it's been like six seven months you like it because we do this and you know

sometimes yeah we ask you guys before we did it like what do you think yeah you

gave us great advice one of the things you said is you never will stop talking

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