As a new mom, Kathy Helvey didn't always get the help she needed.

Isn't it pride when you're a younger mom that keeps you from asking?

I know it was with me.

All of a sudden it hit me when I had my first baby.

I'm supposed to know everything, but I don't.

And I was frantically reading in books, but did I stop to ask another woman?

I did not.

This is Revive Our Hearts with Nancy DeMoss Walgamuth, author of Adorned,

living out the beauty of the gospel together for Friday, March 3rd.

Well, for the past several weeks, we've been walking through the first verses of Titus chapter 2.

And now we've gotten to the part of the message that tells us that older women are to teach younger women.

We're going to keep working our way through the passage next week,

but today we want to focus on developing those discipling, mentoring relationships.

How do you start them? How do you connect? What does that teaching process look like?

I talked with a group of friends about that topic, and I wanted to hear how these women lived out this instruction to be taught by older women and for older women to teach the younger

women. We're here from two pastor's wives who've been with us a number of times in the past

here on Revive Our Hearts, Holly Eliff and Kim Wagner. And our third guest is Kathy Helvey, who has also had a huge effect on

other women's lives. After this conversation was recorded, Kathy was diagnosed with acute leukemia

and ultimately went home to be with the Lord. And even up to her final days, younger women watched her example of praying for others

and remaining joyful even while suffering. And I know that those of us who knew and loved Kathy

still are being impacted by her life today, even as she is in heaven with the Lord. Well, I started this conversation by asking Kim Wagner, how do you find time for these

kinds of disciplining and mentoring relationships?

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