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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Giving Too Much in a Relationship with Lysa Terkeurst

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Religion & Spirituality, Default, Talk Radio, Christianity

4.8808 Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2026

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

We know God's heart is for a healthy marriage, but what happens when life has other plans? Today, I sit down with Lysa Terkeurst and unpack the series of events and discoveries leading up to the letting go of her marriage. She shares what she's learned along the way about boundaries, and her tendency to do more than her fair share of work in a relationship. We get to the root of the why, and what made her susceptible to this type of relational dynamic -- and ultimately, how she found healing in spite of it all.   The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!   DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of eight books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on Instagram or at DebraFileta.com.

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There was a masterful job being done to make me not only feel like the broken one from a broken family,

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to not only feel like the emotional one with less stability,

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but now the picture was being painted that I was the crazy one.

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Yeah.

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As I was seeing things and hearing things and experiencing things that didn't line up with

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reality according to him.

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Are you ready to talk to me? My name is Deborah Felida and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and author. Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of

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helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

0:55.8

The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic, counseling-style sessions,

1:02.0

where we talk about how people are really doing and give my guests and callers an opportunity

1:07.5

to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor. Each of these episodes is meant

1:12.8

to show you that we are all on the journey of healing, mentally, emotionally, spiritually,

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and relationally, together. None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life,

1:25.9

but we don't have to walk this path alone.

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I'm so proud and honored to be having these conversations with men and women who are

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courageously paving the way for open and honest conversations about their personal journey

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of healing. So if you're ready, let's talk.

1:51.7

In celebration of my upcoming new book, People Skills, we're dedicating the next few weeks to conversations that will help us better relate to God, self, and others.

1:57.0

So I've opened the hotlines to process topics such as vulnerability, boundaries, forgiveness,

2:03.7

dealing with offense, church hurt, people pleasing, conflict and communication, and so much more.

2:10.8

My prayer for this specific series of on-air conversations is that as you listen to others processing their struggles out loud,

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