Hey friends, welcome to Girls Night. I'm Stephanie May Wilson and I am so happy that you're

here. Each week I have a girlfriend over and we talk through one of the biggest questions

we have about our lives as women. We're talking about friendships and faith and relationships

in self-confidence. About our calling in life and how to live every bit of our lives to the

absolute full. Life is so much better and easier and absolutely more fun when we navigate

together as girlfriends and I cannot wait to get started. So today on the show I'm sharing

one of my very favorite conversations that we've ever had on Girls Night. It's a conversation I

had back in season one with my amazing friend Hannah Seymour and in it we're talking about,

get ready for it, sex. Now sex is such an important part of our marriages but it's also something

we rarely talk about as girlfriends. But the thing is that Hannah and I think we need to talk about it

more. We need the chance to ask questions to get advice and encouragement from girls who love God

and love their husbands and we're trying to figure this out too and that's what this episode is all

about. When we first recorded this episode I was telling a friend about it afterwards and I

described it to her as all the things you wish your big sister had told you about sex as you were

getting married. I love that. We're going to be talking through questions like what to do if you

don't want to have sex as much as you thought you would or should you be wearing lingerie every time?

What do you do if sex is awkward or even hurts? How do you get better at sex? How do you get yourself

or him in the mood? How often should you be having sex and so much more? I'm telling you this is

Girls Night to the max. This conversation has been so healing and helpful and encouraging for me

and for Hannah and for so many of my girlfriends and I know it will be for you too. Now just a disclaimer,

this episode is specifically geared towards sex in the context of marriage which I know leaves some

people out but here's what I want to say about that. Number one, you don't have to be married to

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