Hey friends, welcome to Girls Night.

I'm Stephanie May Wilson and I am so happy that you're here.

A week I have a girlfriend over and we talk through one of the biggest questions we have

about our lives as women.

We're talking about friendships and faith and relationships and self-confidence, about

our calling in life and how to live every bit of our lives to the absolute full.

Love is so much better and easier and absolutely more fun when we navigate it together as girlfriends

and I cannot wait to get started.

So today my dear friend Kat Harris is back here on the show.

Kat has a brand new book out called Sexless in the City, a sometimes sassy, sometimes

painful, always honest look at dating, desire and sex and that's what today's episode

is all about.

Kat grew up in the South at the height of the purity movement and while I don't want

to give away too much of her story, as she got older she started to reflect on some

of the messages that were taught to her to young age.

Messages like modest as hottest and boys will be boys.

This intense focus on saving yourself from marriage and more.

These messages seemed good and innocent at the time but they left her with a lot of

shame and I know she's not the only one who's experienced this.

As an adult Kat found herself asking a lot of questions, questions like, what is the

Bible really say about sex?

Wait until we're married?

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