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Basically, it's kind of a relationship and financial thing. I currently have a girlfriend. We've been living together for four years.

I guess the thing that I haven't moved forward, one of the reasons for making a full relationship, marriage,

and all that stuff, is financial. I'm a responsible person, I feel, and she

kind of never wants to talk about the budget, even though she wants my help sometimes, and

she has attitude like, I do my thing with my own money, but yet when she wants money or help

a little bit, I'm always there. So I feel I have the right to, especially, like I said, I have

one credit card under my name that she got for a watch machine that it could have been paid off, has not been paid off, and it's some other things down the road, too.

Wow.

Bro.

You just spit a lot at us.

It's not, it's not, well, I'm trying to be quick.

She said be quick, but it's not as, you know, complicated as, you know, it may sound, but it is, you know, to me.

At first blush, this sounds a lot like Howard's fault.

She has a credit card in your name that she used?

My background, I'm pretty responsible, meaning, because my dad was in a huge gambler,

so me and my siblings are pretty responsible with money.

And I guess the point is she has the money to do stuff if she would budget and we'd work together,

but she doesn't want to work together.

And if I confront her about it, you know, it's almost like not my business,

but yet when you, like the other day she needed some money to help pay a bill,

even though really if she buzzed her money

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