Welcome back to Dovey the scapegoat. Do you find you have become the scapegoat? It can

happen at work, at home, at school. You accept that blame because you've been conditioned

to accommodate and to problem solve. You're a lady like that. And generally, acceptance

is certainly easier than holding the one at fault accountable. So you've been sacrificed,

and if you're a scapegoat, don't be sad. Be the greatest of all time. You guys have been

listening to phase one of Dovey the scapegoat. Phase one of accepting my scapegoat status.

It was about comfort, finding comfort in my comfort humans. Like Blair, my husband,

Daddy Fat Stags, Ryan Lill, all your favorite comfort humans, finding laughter, finding joy,

guiding myself to the softness in life. Instead of that hard jagged stuff. When I get stabbed

in the back, I keep moving forward to a place that hurts less, which was in my studio

with my funny friends that hug and they don't stab. Now we're shifting into phase two.

I am currently collecting interviews of my favorite girl bosses as inspiration for

metamorphosis and change. Always being adventurous in life. Just say no to imposter syndrome

and all that other crap. Like it's too late for me to take that leap. I'm too old to

start that new thing. Let's talk getting out of toxic places and taking a professional

leap and finally finding happiness. So I am here with a brand new podcaster herself.

And we're twinning in our new adventure in the podcasting world. Alex, host of words

from a warrior, new episodes every Wednesday. Alex, how the heck are you? We're doing good.

I absolutely love that intro because I have been scapegoated several times at my last

job and so happy that I'm not a scapegoat anymore and I'm happy that I am doing my own

thing now and I'm free. Most importantly, I'm free.

When I started going into phase two, I was thinking of all the lady bosses I know and

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