that if somebody left you, discarded you, just left you in the dust and just did not treat you

right, that is not a reflection of you. That's not your fault. It has nothing to do with your value.

It's not you. It truly is them. If somebody doesn't treat you right, it's not your fault.

So if we can leave you with anything today, it's the lesson that do not let other

people's actions determine your worth. It has nothing to do with you. Feel sorry for them and know

that they don't know how to clearly, they don't know how to even process emotion. They don't know

how to do the right thing. They don't know how to go about things the right way. And that's not your fault. And it has nothing to do with your worth. It does not determine your value. Like we're so, I, I tell that to Ari. She has to tell that to me. It's not our fault when other people don't treat us right. And it's not your fault. And guess what? We've said it before. We'll say it again. If somebody left, if they left,

they were never your person to begin with. And you have to say thank you, Jesus, because he has

one person for you and it's not the person who left you in the cold. That's not them. So you say,

thank you, Jesus for getting the wrong person out of my life. And I'm ready, Lord, for you to bring the right person in your time. And I honestly, you know, even you just saying that, like, I needed to hear that again. Like, you guys don't understand. You saying that, like, just helped me. Like, I need to hear these things still. That's why, like why like everyone's like well why aren't I healed but

this is taken too long I know guys I I know and it's okay and we have to give ourselves grace

heartbreak and pain and healing takes time totally yeah it takes time and but who you're going to be

at the end of this heartbreak it's you're not even going to

recognize yourself.

And that's the most unbelievable thing about pain and hardships and heartbreaks.

It's that through the pain, God builds you into this person that at the end of it, you're

truly unrecognizable.

Though I'm still healing, I can't believe like the woman that he

raised me up and molded me into. I can't believe it. It's unbelievable. And I wouldn't have been

able to be this woman if I didn't go through the

suffering, if I didn't go through the heartbreak.

Even though it was the worst thing that I've ever endured, it was the greatest blessing of my life.

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