GF Gave Ultimatum On Us Getting Married, But I Don't Think I Want To. What Do I Do?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 5 April 2023
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Corey, Erica, Jade and Jocelyne discuss a viewer question on girlfriend who gave the viewer an ultimatum on getting married. However, he doesn't think he wants to get married.
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| 0:30.3 | Girlfriend gave ultimatum on us getting married, but I don't think I want to. What do I do? |
| 0:35.3 | Don't get married. You got to be honest with a ripped the band-aid off. Just say, you're great. I think you're amazing, but I'm just not in the same place. And I'll understand if that doesn't work for you. You got to be who you are. I mean, the worst thing you can do is go along with it because I did that when I was younger and let me tell |
| 0:55.2 | you getting a divorce when it was totally avoidable and not trusting your heart and your intuition |
| 1:01.4 | it's a bad way to go and it's very expensive so you don't want to be committing to marriage |
| 1:08.0 | or relationships or jobs or business deals when it doesn't feel right |
| 1:12.7 | and you're not in the same place. |
| 1:14.4 | It's better to just be honest, but you got to understand the downside risks, you know, |
| 1:18.7 | especially with women because they got a biological clock and their time frame is always |
| 1:22.7 | narrowing as they get older. |
| 1:24.8 | You know, us guys tend to peak later in life, and so therefore you can take |
| 1:28.9 | your time, but don't waste a girl's time and give her false hopes or false promises that you're |
| 1:34.3 | going to marry her and have kids when you're just not in the same place. But when you're honest |
| 1:38.5 | like that, you're also going to understand that there's a good chance she's going to dip on you. |
| 1:42.7 | But there's also, she may stay and stick around for a while. |
| 1:47.1 | But just keep in mind from, if you know you're not going to stay with her and you're not going to marry, |
| 1:52.1 | you've got to tell her. |
| 1:52.9 | It's not fair to her or you. |
| 1:55.9 | Because if you wait and you stretch it out several years and she's hoping that you're going to change your mind, |
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