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Welcome back to I do Part 2, the podcast that's all about finding love again.

And we're some of your hosts, Amy here, along with TJ and Jana.

And this is part two of our conversation with Kelly Ben-Simon from the Real Housewives of New York and Ultimate Girls Trip.

Do you think girls should go out to meet guys in groups, like the Ultimate Girl's? You know, in the ultimate girls trip, they're always like, introduce me, introduce me, introduce me, so I'm constantly introducing them to everybody. And then they don't like the guys. And I'm just like, I didn't say, like, you asked me to introduce you. I'm like, hi, this is Luan, this is Dorinda. Right. Like, TJ, would you rather meet someone in a group? I mean, obviously, you're in a lovely relationship, but if you were single, would you want to meet in a group or in a one-on-one setting? No, I'm always been, it's more on one-on-one, an organic setting. Like, just meet people. I don't like being set up. I don't like, well, she'll be there and we'll go with our group.

No, just in day-to-day life, you just meet people.

And it's, so what to hear about dating apps, and I hear that now. That just blows my mind to where there, I couldn't imagine doing that. I'm from, I'm 47 now. Right. grew up in an era where that wasn't necessarily the case that the dating online but I just I guess I guess you hear hear me talking about it, a pre-nup is not romantic to me, or you hear, I just, just old-fashioned in that way. So I just organically think, why can't people just meet people? We see people all the time, but we don't give people that we see on the train or at a restaurant or down. We're looking at our phone when the love of your life might be at the end of the bar, right? You don't even look down there. That is my mindset on it. Yeah. And Raya is so superficial, too. I mean, there's so many beautiful people, especially on those apps. And Raya specifically where it's just supermodel after supermodel. and they're the ones in Portugal or Istanbul or like, and their photos. I was like,

wait a minute,

everything. Raya specifically where it's just supermodel after supermodel and they're the ones in Portugal or

Istanbul or like and they're photos I was like wait a minute I'm a model I don't even take photos

like that these guys are like so they're like doing backflips off of like mountains and like these

exotic places I'm like what is happening here yeah it just looks really pretty and I feel like

that's where it's like oh they can get somebody better with a swipe of a finger.

Wow, you're always being compared to someone's adventure or their Photoshop, this or that.

That's crazy.

How much more difficult is it to date in your...

I mean, you've been single for a long time.

Have you found it to be more difficult the older you get?

What, like, do you feel

like what you have to choose from gets as a smaller pool? What's that been like? Um, so, you know,

I feel like, you know, I've been single, I mean, I've been single for a while from since I got

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