The Stara's first pregnancy was terminated when she was 15 years old.

She didn't understand what was happening.

After three more abortions, she finally learned the truth.

I heard it from focus on the family and they were talking about pro-life being a baby, a human being in your stomach.

And I was like, wow, that's pro life.

Today, Dostara has six children who represent God's love and forgiveness in her life.

And today, Dostara is a pro-life advocate.

So it's focus on the family has definitely sharpened me and I'm looking forward to

continuing to being sharpening. I'm not embarrassed anymore about the choices that I made. I'm wanting to help.

I'm Jim Daly. Working together we can rescue pre-born babies and their moms giving these families hope. Donate at

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So when you're in a bad mood it really can be easy to snap at your

spouse and before you know it you've dropped a mean comment and now there's a

heated argument and things are going to spiral out of control. I'm John Fuller along with

Greg and Aaron Smalley. They head up our marriage department here and how can we

be honest about what many would consider a negative emotion within us. How do we do that without

being rude or snarky or in my case I'm so often condescending?

Well I think the first clue that we have to pay attention to

is it when in those moments when we're being rude or condescending,

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