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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Getting Married Young with Dave and Ashley Willis

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2021

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

When is the BEST age to get married? Is it getting married younger or older? I get that question a lot. And if you know me, you know that my answer is this: It’s not about your age, it’s about your health.  But nonetheless, there are pros and cons to getting married young and there are pros and cons to getting married older. So, we’ll be talking to two sets of couples who got married at different stages, and hearing both the pros and the cons from their experience. Today I want to introduce you to Dave and Ashley Willis, who met and married in their early 20s. I loved my conversation with them, and I know you will too!! Getting Married Young Don’t miss a new episode of the podcast!! Subscribe on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts, and then tune in to this episode of the Love + Relationship Podcast. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PODCASTS –  iHEART RADIO Debra’s New Book COMING MAY 2021!! PRE-ORDER TODAY!! And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season and Are You Really OK?. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey, everyone back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,

0:23.8

and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid conversations about love, sex, dating,

0:29.5

singleness, and marriage, as well as mental and emotional health. For those of you who don't know me,

0:35.5

I'm a licensed professional counselor and author of four books.

0:39.4

I also run the popular relationship advice blog, True Lovedates.com, reaching millions of people with the message that healthy people make healthy relationships.

0:50.4

If you've tuned into the podcast before, you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people call in or write in with their questions, and I answer them on this show in short, practical, bite-sized answers.

1:04.2

If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it by email or voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com or check out my podcast page,

1:14.3

tru-lovedates.com slash love and relationships. And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the

1:19.7

episodes. So let's get started. Are you okay? I mean, are you really okay?

1:32.1

We often hear that question and automatically respond yes, without taking the time to think it through.

1:38.8

But just because you're a Christian doesn't mean you're healthy.

1:43.1

In the craziness and busyness of life, we push through

1:46.9

without ever taking inventory of how we're actually doing. Then all of a sudden, we're faced with

1:52.7

things like burnout, anxiety, depression, mental and emotional breakdowns, relationship problems,

1:59.2

and even physical illness and struggles that seemingly

2:02.2

come out of nowhere. But it's because we never stopped. We never took the time to pause

2:07.9

and consider how we're actually doing emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically.

2:14.5

I know this because I've been there myself. When Jesus calls us to love him

2:19.7

with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, that means getting healthy in all of these areas.

2:26.9

But time alone doesn't get us healthy. We have to be intentional about moving in the right

2:32.7

direction. As a licensed professional counselor, I want to share my story with you.

2:38.2

I want to help you get real about how you're actually doing and give you a practical plan

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