Welcome back to We Can Do Hard Things.

Today we are giving you the finale of our series of live episodes from the road, from our We Can Do Hard

Things tour. We hope you've enjoyed this little glimpse into the joy and connection. We felt

being together with you for our 10 city book tour, being in those rooms with you all during

this particular American moment, move me in ways that I

am still processing and that are still swirling inside of us as we decide what's next.

In today's episode, we sat in those rooms and had huge thousands of people in these family meetings.

That's what we did, city by city across the country.

In today's episode, during these family meetings, we talked about how to stop hurting or not stop hurting when life just won't let up. Perfectionism and the

messy magic of just freaking making it all up as we go along. We're ending this one in Minneapolis.

It was Abby and my wedding anniversary. I knew that because my dad texted me that morning to remind me.

And then I googled it to verify it. Oh my God.

It was true. Abby surprised me by asking me to renew our vows on stage in front of thousands of people knowing how much I love big public displays of affection.

Anyway, you'll just have to listen to see how that freaking went.

But I was there supported by you, the Minneapolis Pod Squad, and I'm told we made it through together.

I'm not sure.

I dissociated.

We hope you enjoy it.

Awkward.

Okay. Okay. Okay, so this is the part of the event that we take it to the people. Yes! So we want to know if you all have things that you would like to talk about.

Can we bring up the house lights just a touch?

So you can see each other a little bit.

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