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Am I the Genius?

Gentlemen, What's the Worst Way an ENTITLED Admirer Coped with you REJECTING Them?

Am I the Genius?

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Self-improvement, Education

4.6769 Ratings

🗓️ 21 August 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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0:00.0

Gentlemen, what is the worst way an entitled admirer coped with you rejecting them?

0:06.3

A girl at work started playing some aggressive footsie there. When I pushed her foot away and

0:11.5

gave her a look, she went on to tell me that I'm not as attractive as I think I am and that I

0:16.0

should start dating girls in my own league. I hate reactions like this. I don't care if I'm the ugliest guy in the world.

0:22.5

My preferences are my own to have. If I'm not interested, then I'm not interested. Rejection sucks,

0:28.2

but it sucks even more that people start to get personally vindictive. I know my own worth.

0:32.8

I'd rather be alone than with someone I'm not crazy about. It's not just about me. I've hurt girls that I

0:38.5

settled for, and I'm definitely not proud of that. As much as rejection sucks, it's better than

0:43.4

being a placeholder until someone more suited comes along. I came home from work to find her undressed

0:49.5

on my bed about a week after we broke up, and she went into complete denial about the breakup,

0:53.9

and for months afterward tell people we were still dating and show up at my house.

0:58.0

I was in New York during Fleet Week, in my dress whites with my group, waiting to cross the street.

1:04.0

Drunk girl comes up to me, grabs me, and says she's always wanted to be with a sailor.

1:08.0

I'd gently stiff arm and let her know that I'm happily married, but I point out my young single shipmate in the group. But I want you! Her friends have arrived by this point. She's told them I was being mean because I said no, and started crying. The friends confronted me. It's her birthday, though. Your wife isn't even here. Just be nice. Oof, wow. Even at my drunkest, I don't think I'd ever cross a line like that.

1:32.0

Imagine if a woman said that to your husband someday. I dated a girl for a week when I realized

1:38.0

she just wasn't my type and I wasn't hers, so I told her we'd go our ways. Her way, however,

1:43.4

was to stalk me for three years,

1:45.7

because apparently we were meant to be together for life. The highlights were, making fake

1:51.3

internet accounts of other girls are dated in those three years, and knowing frighteningly much

1:55.9

about me in these girls while writing to me impersonating them, calling every day, and when I

2:00.4

changed my numbers,

2:01.3

she had called every other person in my life that she had the number of, trying to date people

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